Conflict can be start anytime and anywhere when the individual concern is not ready to accept the middle way approach. The conflict will lead to tension and will eventually damage the relations between each other. Therefore, we need to deal with any conflicts wisely in order to resolve the problems that we face this well.
The strategy of Accommodating (Accommodating)
Accommodating strategy is a strategy or a style of addressing conflict with Budge or sacrificing the interests of yourself and willing to sacrifice everything in order to maintain a relationship with the other party that are in conflict. This strategy will be more effective if the other party is being the conflict is more professional or have a better solution in addressing a problem that occur. Use the strategy of Accommodating at the moment for management strategies:
- An issue is not important for us
- We realize that we are wrong
- Ask, when we are willing to let others learn from your mistakes
- question, when we know that we're not going to win?
- The harmony of relations is very important to us?
- The commonality of all parties is more important or when common goal more important than problems that occur?
- When we want to establish credit or services for our future?
This strategy can also be used when something happened is not so important for our own. In other words, the strategy is a strategy of "accommodating to me loses, you win" or "I lose, You Win."
The strategy of Avoidance (Avoiding)
The strategy of Avoiding or strategy is a strategy of Avoidance avoidance decision making in any form in a conflict. This strategy can be used only when a problem which caused the conflict is less important. Typically, people who use this strategy will hope the problem will be resolved by itself. But keep in mind that the strategy of avoiding this is not a good long term strategy. Use the strategy of avoiding at the moment for management strategies:
- Ok, ask when conflict is small and risking the relationship for the conflict?
- Ask when there are still more important things for ultimate or no time at all to handle things that are this conflict?
- When we know that there is a better person to resolve this conflict in a manner that better?
- Ask, when in need of more information?
In this strategy, neither side so no winner and the losing side or "No Win – No Lose"
Strategy Collaborate (Collaborating)
Strategy Collaborate or Collaborating Strategy often called with its strategy of Win-Win (win-win). This style of strategy or trying to satisfy all the parties are in conflict. Required discussions with about all the problems and find the best solutions as well as honesty and commitment is needed from all sides. The style of this collaboration is a very useful way to combine insights from people with different perspectives on an issue and the result can be a strong commitment to the solution of each party. Use strategy Collaborated at the moment for management strategies:
- Ask when the presence of a high level of trust?
- When we don't want to have the full responsibility of a problems occur?
- OK, when we want others to also have ownership against the solutions put forward?
- When those involve in the conflict are willing to change his mind?
In other words, this is a strategy of collaborating strategies "I win, you win" or "I win, you win."
Competitive Strategy (Competing)
Competing conflict resolution style or strategy this strategy is Competing with the approach of the "win-lose" or "win-lose", where we are trying to win this conflict with the defeat of the other party or the "I Win, You Lose". We act very firmly to achieve our goal without cooperation with other parties and even at the expense of the other party. Use the strategy of Competing or Competing at the moment for management strategies:
- Ask it ! When we are convince that we are right.
- OK, When it is necessary to take decisions in a short time and quickly.
- When we have to defend our own rights.
- We do not want to be taken advantage of by the other party.
This Competing strategies may be appropriate for emergencies or when in need of a quick and decisive action.
The strategy of Compromise (Compromising)
Styles of conflict resolution with this compromise strategy is a strategy that uses approach "to lose – lose" or "lose – lose" where all the parties in the conflict are willing to budge or not getting what is actually they want for the sake of keeping the relationship and common interests.
This strategy is usually used when both parties wish to cooperate and have the same goals as well as the importance of equal strength. This strategy often used by business travelers for business contracts in negotiations. Use the strategy of Compromise (Compromising) at the moment for management strategies:
- When the two parties have a shared commitment to keeping his relationship
- When both sides have equal status or power
In other words, this strategy is a strategy of winning something with losing a little bit.
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